Letting My Mum Go Was The Kindest Thing To Do – Pasuma Speaks On Painful Loss

Veteran Fuji musician, Wasiu Alabi aka Pasuma has opened up on the painful loss of his mother.

The singer said he had to let go of his mother, Alhaja Adijat Kuburat, because she has being through a lot.

He spoke on his mother’s passing during an interactive session with Iyabo Ojo on the ‘Gold Room with Iyabo Ojo‘ podcast.

Pasuma lamented that his mother’s death created a huge gap in his life.

He also recalled how his mother would often check on him, especially while he was away for concerts.

Pasuma said, “It has happened. There is nothing I can do about it. I love my mum. If I was asked to give anything in exchange for her life, I would have gladly done that. But that’s what God wanted so I have to let her go. She had suffered a lot. I did my best to take care of her. It’s not easy losing mum or someone close to your heart.

“With a heavy heart, I’ve accepted her passing as God’s will. The pain she endured in her last days made it clear that letting her go was the kindest thing to do, despite how much it hurt.

“I was by her side, cooking for her, ensuring she took her medication, and taking care of her personal needs. It was important for me to ensure she felt loved and cared for during those tough times.

“Her constant calls to ensure I was safe and sound, her inability to sleep until I returned home, truly showed the depth of her love and concern for me. Now, I miss those calls, those check-ins that reminded me I was loved”.