IK Ogbonna’s wife, Sonia, against the backdrop of her marital crisis, has taken to her Instagram page to share her thought on people’s comment.
‘You can choose between REACTING to people or situations or ACTING DELIBERATELY. Reaction is triggered and DETERMINED by others/their behavior towards us, it’s an impulse, a need to respond in the way we were approached – often aggressively or negatively and it’s sort of a mechanism of defense. But before you REACT you need to ask yourself “Is this action reflecting my true nature and who I really am or wish to be?” . Don’t allow anyone have a power over you. I choose to be in charge over my life so I ACT DELIBERATELY. Meaning, I want my actions to be a reflection of WHO I AM, no matter what & no matter circumstances. What you say or think is who you are, how I respond is who I am. I love me some me especially when I stay true to myself , against odds. Life isn’t perfect but it’s SOOOOOO BEAUTIFUL, and I wish you recover from whatever you are going through so you can as well realize the same, before it passes you by because you were too busy feeding ill thoughts, bad wishes and rotten emotions instead filling your mind with gratitude & love. I’m a light baby, can’t you feel it.’
Source: Naija News