Toyo Baby says sex before marriage makes relationship more complicated.
Olayode Juliana, popularly known as Toyo Baby in Jenifa’s Diary series, spoke on how pre-marital sex leads to cheating in marriage.
Toyo Baby, in a recent interview with The Nation, said sex before marriage results to cheating when two people eventually become married as they start comparing their partners sexual prowess with the people they had sex with before getting married.
When asked if she believes that sex before marriage makes relationships more complicated, she replied:
“Yes I do. Sex before marriage makes relationship more complicated. Some ladies date more than five men before marriage and sleep with all of them because they see it as a norm or a way to prove their love against God’s standard. I personally believe that there is a lot to sex than the pleasure it gives. It makes you become one with the person. It ties you with the person, such that when you marry you compare your previous sexual life with your present and the memories of how you did it with the other person won’t leave you, expecting more from your husband or wife, forgetting that we are all not the same and our sexual lives can’t be the same as well.
“That’s what leads to cheating in marriage. Some men or women can’t imagine been faithful to just one person because they’ve done it with several people in their past or before marriage so it’s difficult. Research has it and I learnt that if you had sex with a particular person if you meet the person years after and you’re alone or whatever, it is very possible that you will do it again.”
She added, “Sex is good, don’t get me wrong, I mean God created it and everything He made is good and beautiful but sex before marriage is what makes it bad and wrong and sex with anyone else apart from your husband or wife in marriage is bad as well.”